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For modern marriages there are no strict rules as to who should speak at the reception.  The following folks may talk at a wedding: Father or Mum of the bride, the best man, the bridesmaid in chief, a groom, the bride, parents-in-law, and bridesmaids.  It isn’t uncommon for two of the groomsmen or a couple of the bridesmaids to speak at the same marriage. 

The majority are intimidated at the very idea of public talking.  Similarly, the majority are doubtful of the right wedding speech etiquette which compounds public speaking uneasiness. 

This article will highlight some helpful tips to prepare and deliver a superb speech. 

The formal order of the speeches is:

1.  Dad of the bride

2.  The groom

3.  The best man

In modern times, it isn’t unusual for the bride, maid of honor or perhaps some guests to say some words. 

The speech segment of the reception is generally held after the meals but there is no reason why the speeches cannot be before the meal. 

For marriage speech etiquette follow these top 10 tips:

1.  If you’re the one being toasted never raise your glass or drink from your glass till the toast is finished and other guests have sipped their drink. 

2.  No jokes that have ethnic or racial connotations. 

3.  Avoid any profane language. 

4.  Don’t make any reference to any past / future lovemaking between the couple – as an example – the honeymoon. 

5.  Don’t mention prior weddings. 

6.  Don’t chew gum; put your hands in your pocket or shuffle from side to side as you deliver the speech. 

7.  Don’t drink more than a glass or two of alcohol before the speech. 

8.  Avoid any “sore” subjects like a recent death in the family. 

9.  Always stand when delivering the toast. 

10.  Don’t hit a glass with a spoon to gain attention.  It is more mannered to stand and hold your glass and wait for silence. 

If you follow the 10 tips above you’ll have no reason to be concerned about following the right marriage speech etiquette.

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